You can't control the past.
Should've, would've, and could've ruling your life? Feeling guilty or regretful about your past? Holding on to the past can be detrimental to your growth and healing.
Simply put, let it go. May sound easier than done but it's possible. You can't control what you should've, would've, or could've done but can learn from the past. Use the past as a guide for growth, healing and discover your resiliency.